Welcome to my World: A journey of dreams and determination

Welcome to My World: A Journey of Dreams and Determination

Hey there, new friend.

My name is Luma, and this space—Sacred Smoke & Soulwork—was born from one of the hardest seasons of my life.

I started this blog during a time of deep pain and spiraling chaos. My marriage was falling apart. My mental health had hit rock bottom. I felt alone, unheard, and exhausted. After a moment of suicidal ideation, I was taken to the hospital by the Sheriff’s Department. What followed was a 12-hour wait in silence, confusion, and isolation—then a transfer to a mental health facility that opened my eyes to the real state of mental health care in New Mexico.

That experience broke me… but it also woke me up.

I saw people with no advocates. I saw people falling through the cracks because they lacked clarity, support, or a voice. And I realized—I want to be that voice. I want to be the person I needed during my darkest moments.

So here I am.

What Makes Me, Me

I’m a lifelong learner, a wife, a mom to two amazing teens, and an unapologetic nerd. My first gaming console was a Sega Genesis at age five, and I’ve been adventuring through digital worlds ever since. I’m also a music lover, a nature girl at heart, and someone who finds deep peace in fishing, hiking, camping, and even hunting (for food—not sport).

Our home is shared with our four-legged family: Ruger, our dog; Opal, our cat; Molly and Tebow, the pups my mother-in-law cares for—Tebow especially, who belonged to my late father-in-law. I also love crafting, exploring, and finding creative ways to keep my hands and mind busy.

Faith, Family, and the Fire That Refines

My Christian faith is the foundation of everything I do. But I want to be very clear: I’m not here to preach wrath and religion. I’m here to speak love, grace, and restoration.

God’s “rules” aren’t just about avoiding sin—they’re about building a life filled with peace, purpose, and wellness. When I follow His guidance, I notice I’m happier, healthier, and more aligned with who I’m meant to be. I want to introduce people to that God—the One who loved me through my mess, not the one people twist to shame or silence others.

And my family? They’re my why. They’ve walked this road with me. Through the chaos, through the grief, through the rebuilding. Their strength and grace give me perspective and fuel my empathy.

A Day in My Life

My days start early—usually around 5:30 AM—and flow with a rhythm that balances responsibility and restoration. I drop my youngest off at school, tackle housework, and make sure to carve out time for soul-care like prayer, journaling, or gaming.

I spend late mornings working on bills, blog projects, or whatever needs my attention. Afternoons are slower-paced, with time for gaming or relaxation before school pickup and dinner prep. We’re usually winding down by 9 PM. Fridays are our sacred date days. Saturdays, we rest and honor the Sabbath.

I do my best to make space for beauty and breath in each day—even when life feels heavy.

My Cannabis Testimony

I’ve been a medical cannabis patient and advocate for about a decade now. When my psychiatrist first suggested it, I was hesitant. But learning about cannabis—the terpenes, the strains, the science behind how it works—completely changed my perspective.

It’s not just a plant. It’s a tool. A God-given one, in my opinion.

Cannabis helps calm my nervous system during intense stress. Even the act of inhaling and exhaling helps regulate my emotions. It’s not a magic cure, but it’s been a lifeline. And I believe we should stop demonizing a healing creation and start learning how to use it with intention and care.

Why I’m Going Back to School

I believe I’ve been called to be a counselor, an advocate, and a protector for those who don’t have one. Returning to college to study Social Services is my next big leap—and I’m honestly excited. I’ve always loved learning, and now I have a purpose that fuels that passion. This isn’t just about a degree. It’s about stepping into my calling.

Looking to the Horizon

My family and I are planning a move sometime in the next year. The oilfield industry here has made our environment more difficult to live in—air quality, cost of living, and stress levels are on the rise.

We’re praying for a new place where the Lord wants us. Ideally? Somewhere with milder weather, a big ol’ lake nearby, and land to breathe and grow. I love the Pacific Northwest, but we’re staying open to the Spirit’s leading. Wherever we go, we want it to feel like home.

Why This Blog Exists

At the end of the day, I just want this blog to be a safe space.

A place where you feel seen.

A place where faith and cannabis can coexist.

A place where healing, honesty, and soulwork come together.

I hope you’ll walk with me through the fires of life, and maybe—just maybe—we’ll come out more refined, more loved, and more free than ever before.

Thanks for being here.

With love always,

Luma